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Do All Men Cheat? Yes Or No and Why?

Do All Men Cheat? Yes Or No and Why?

Do All Men Cheat? Yes Or No and Why?

Do All Men Cheat? Yes Or No and Why?

Why Do Men Cheat? 

Some sayings become facts because they have been proven, while some are controversial by what circumstance(s) surrounds the event, so they are conditional facts.

The saying “ALL MEN CHEAT“, has appeared to be one ‘Controversial‘ fact that the female gender even in the womb holding on to because of recurrent experiences, personally, collectively or relatively. Almost all women say All Men Cheat but are that a fact that is proven regardless or subject to the personality, or circumstances around it.

I ask you Do all Men Cheat????

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From my research and interactions with some ladies, I constructively penned down their thoughts on the male figure that results in the Verdict that ALL MEN CHEAT.  Thus, to make a balanced article I made objective analysis and possible remedy to every flaw and faults noted. Enjoy..

MY RECAPITULATIONS

  1. They aren’t certain or sure of what they want – (UNCERTAINTY)

Choice has been a great key and tool given to Mankind. The ability to make the most important choices in life is all in your hands. Although, the rare cases we can’t choose, have little or no impact only when we choose to let it.

For Instance, we don’t choose the day we were born, we don’t choose our biological parents, we don’t choose our background etc. But all these choices matter to our relevance in life when we allow them. That’s by the way…

One of the greatest flaws of a man is no knowing what he wants. It’s the foundation for an irresponsible life.  When a man doesn’t know what he wants, there is no goal, no rule, no law, there is no form…

Men are natural predators and when they have a target they go for it earnestly but when it’s undefined everything looks like what they want so much a Man will Cheat

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Do All Men Cheat? Yes Or No and Why?

  1. They always want to have alternatives. 

Options come as tests to Commitment and loyalty, prudence, faithfulness. Are you sure you will remain faithful if you had other options?

A loyal friend is the one that has alternatives more beneficial to his/her present but sticks with you to through thick and thin. People love to live in the now, no one wants a refusal or undergo the test of patience, we want to have it anytime we feel like. So in satisfying hunger they always want alternatives, such a man will cheat

  1. They want to see every personality they aren’t just satisfied. 

Dissatisfaction, a man wants to have 100% qualities of his ideal woman in a Soul automatically and in doing so it makes you compare characters and attributes.

However, knowing that it is natural for a man to like more than one person and still maintain their relationship, they end up. cheating. A man can love 3 women for entirely different reasons just to complete his selfish nature of having it all.

This leads to having multiple women to complete the idea of a perfect woman… Terrible but true no man cheats with women that have the same attributes and Qualities

No Woman Is 100% in All Qualities, Perfection is Continuous and Progressive, not instant.

  1. People cheat because they are lured to do it… normally on their own they wouldn’t have done it

Victims of Circumstances

Sometimes you don’t judge till you find yourself in the exact similar situation and come out of it strong. Men are moved by sight so what they see informs them. When a man falls for a seductive appearance, he has been pre-informed and pre-meditated on the act and did not take it to heart to decline.

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Falling by seduction is a gradual process. It starts with your eyes being fed consistently when it gets to your heart if care is not taken with the right opportunity you will cheat. Most times are drawn by the physique, beauty of shape, smell,  and other physical attributes.

No one looks away from a good sight, including women. Thus, when they see a beauty they admire and as predators, they want to acquire

Do All Men Cheat? Yes Or No and Why?

Guard Your Heart with all diligence for out of it are then issues of life.

However, the above attributes are true for a man who chooses not to be Responsible, remember Choice…

A Garden abandoned will eventually turn to a forest and abode wild animals. The nature of man is to cheat because it’s an Adamic nature that everything bad likes to make the first impression.

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Darkness always shows up before Light comes to repel it..Night comes before the Morning…

So Everyman who refuses to grow up and take responsibility will cheat directly or indirectly

The remedy is to Have

  1. The Spirit Of God
  2. The Fear Of God
  3. Principles
  4. Values
  5. Self Control ….

If a man puts his hands on the plough and looks back he’s unfit.  If you take the bold step to make a life with one lady don’t look back because of the way to go if forward. This is why before you take that step to be sure God is ahead of You.

Marriage is a beautiful thing, a Blessing, Many have little or no idea of what they want, who they are, and why they want to spend the rest of their lives with someone before going into it. This is why we have a lot of pitfalls in the institution of marriage, many are just after the ceremony and not the matrimony

As for the singles, having multiple partners is just the beginning and making of an infidel..

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Let your eye be single and your body full of light. Grow with that one person, build, and you’ll see that what you admire in others someone was responsible for it …

My Conclusion All Men Don’t Cheat …. If there is a 1% that don’t, there are over 30 million souls in that Category..

BE THE MAN THAT MAKES THE DIFFERENCE….

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5 Things Single Women Really Need Single Men to Know

5 Things Single Women Really Need Single Men to Know

5 Things Single Women Really Need Single Men to Know

5 Things Single Women Really Need Single Men to Know

There Are 5 Things Single Women Are Dying For Single Men to Know

“Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honour to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered” (1 Peter 3:7).

OK, I know this passage is addressing husbands, but I think it’s possibly the most important message in the Bible for single men. There is great wisdom to be gleaned from this verse on how to understand women and navigate relationships with us in an honourable way. And what better time than Valentine’s Day, or as many of us like to call it, ‘Singles Awareness Day,’ to do a good heart check?

ALSO, READ 7 Things Every Single Should Know Before Marriage

As I work and minister to single moms, I almost daily find myself dealing with someone who’s been deeply wounded by the way a man has treated her. In fact, I’ve found that single women, in general, are in such a state of hurt and confusion over the way men are treating them that their hearts are literally dying.

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So this piece had to be written.

5 Things Single Women are Dying for Single Men to Know

If you are a single guy who is following Jesus, we assume you know certain ‘rules of the game’ and are going to play by them. We do understand that you are a flawed human being just like us and probably don’t mistreat us on purpose. We also know that there is no such thing as a relationship without risk. But here are five things that would help our hearts tremendously for you to be more diligent about:

1. Don’t Underestimate Your Leadership Role

God assigned all men, not just husbands, the responsibility and privilege of leadership when it comes to women. You are physically and emotionally tougher than us, which is why he refers to us as the weaker vessel. When you read ‘weaker’ think delicate, precious and vulnerable. How you steward us matters A LOT and you will be accountable for it to Christ one day.

I think I speak on behalf of all women who love the Lord when I say our number one desire in a man is that he can and will lead us spiritually. If we allow ourselves to get involved with a man who isn’t a believer then we are agreeing upfront to not have any of the following expectations. If he doesn’t share Christ’s heart, we cannot expect him to love us or treat us in a Christ-like manner. That said, many of us who have established that submission to Christ is a ‘non-negotiable’ in a potential mate still find ourselves reeling in insecurity because of the way we are being led by Christian men. Guys, we want to let you lead us, but part of your responsibility is creating an environment where we feel safe to be led and to respond to you. When you mislead, it hurts us and causes us to distrust men and God.

2. Don’t Single Us out Unless You Want a Singular Relationship with Us

Maybe it’s that extra rib God gave us, but we women have a heightened sense of awareness. When you single us out in any way—like giving us a compliment or liking a picture we post on Facebook or letting us borrow your pencil—we notice. I know, it’s crazy. Sometimes it feels like the greatest curse of womanhood, the fact that we are SO aware of the littlest things. So when you send us a private message or call us for reasons that are not business-related, or your hugs get more frequent, we really notice.

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5 Things Single Women Need Men to Know

When we notice you treating us in a manner that is significantly different from the way you treat other women, it leads us to believe you are interested in us in a singular way. If you ask us out on a one-on-one basis, we always assume there is romantic interest unless you clearly state otherwise.

Then, if you actually say the word date, we expect that you are ready to be singularly committed to us.

Thus, if you want to date as the world dates, be aware you are engaging in a cruel sport. The whole concept of Let me lead you to believe that I’ve picked you when actually I’m just using you to meet my needs until something better comes along is actually pretty unkind.

3. Don’t Leave Us Guessing About Your Intentions

Imagine our female brains like a pie chart. When we don’t know where we stand in relationships, a large portion of the pie is consumed with trying to figure this out, leaving much less room for all the other important things in our lives. At each stage of the game, even if it seems awkward, we really want to know where we stand with you. It’s really ok to tell us, ‘I don’t plan to get married’ or ‘I am exploring a relationship with someone else right now or ‘I’m very interested in you and really want to take our friendship to the next level.’

Please make sure your words and your actions are consistent with your intentions. Don’t tell us how devoted you are to us while you’re posting pictures of yourself with a different woman every week on Facebook.

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By the same token, don’t tell us you just want to be friends and then call or message us every night because you’re feeling lonely or wanting female validation. Be honest with yourself. If you feel the need to connect daily or hourly with a woman with who you can share all the intimate details of your life, you don’t just want a friend, you want a wife. This brings me to…

4. Don’t Lead Us to a Place of Intimacy if You Have No Intention of Making Us Your Wife

We know it’s not ok to go to a place of physical intimacy with you outside of marriage. But guys, when you flirt or ‘connect’ with us on levels that are emotionally and romantically intimate, you are still putting our hearts at great risk.

Because God wired us to want that even more than sex, it’s nearly impossible for us not to respond to it. And how we usually respond is by giving you access to the deepest places in our hearts that should be reserved exclusively for our husbands. When we discover, especially later in the game, that you never had any intentions of putting yourself in that role, it can cause us significant grief. Remember, if it is gratifying to you but costly to us, it is never Christ-like.

5. Don’t Dishonor Us by ‘Keeping Your Options Open

One of the reasons I refuse to engage in online dating, even the Christian version, is that I hate the idea of just being one of many options a man might be entertaining as he shops for a mate.

Like, how many other women has he ‘added to his cart’ beside me? Thanks to technology, we are very aware that your options are unlimited these days. We can’t compete with all that is available to you at the touch of a screen and frankly, we don’t want to.

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Romans 12:10 says “Be devoted to one another in love. Honour one another above yourselves.” I think it’s safe to say that honouring means not being a player.

To honour means to set apart, to give high status or value to. Honouring a mate or potential mate means promising them your exclusive attention, emotionally and physically. To dishonour means to treat it as common or ordinary. As sons and daughters of the King, we are not common or ordinary and we should never treat others that way or let ourselves be treated that way!

Guys, nothing makes a woman feel more common or ordinary than to discover she is just one of many options you are pursuing. On the other hand, nothing makes a woman feel more honoured than knowing you have eyes only for her and are committed to loving her with everything you’ve got.

5 Things Single Women Need Men to Know

The fact that you have kept yourself away from physical, emotional, and even visual entanglements with other women so you can offer her the special gift of your WHOLE self allows her to rest in this security: that if you were faithful to her before you even met, then you really can be trusted to be faithful once you are married.

Guys, God knows you get bombarded daily with temptation. Many of you live alone and long for companionship. If you’re a single dad, you may be away from your kids a lot too, which makes it even harder. And you’re probably not thrilled about having to do your own laundry and dishes.

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Not to mention the physical urges. Part of you probably feels entitled to go find a woman and use her at some level to ‘take the edge off.’ You think no one understands.

But Jesus does. He lived on his own as a man and was somehow able to keep himself pure, never violating a woman physically or emotionally, always intent on taking on the role of her protector and leading her in a way that would make her feel safe and bring out the best in her.

5 Things Single Women Really Need Single Men to Know

Could women say this is true of you? If not, don’t beat yourself up. The whole purpose of a heart check is to admit where you fail and let God correct you. Even if you’ve blown it up to this point, the good news is, your past does not have to disqualify you from this vision.

On this side of the cross, through grace, we are all declared pure and are capable of having a relationship with one mate that is faithful and true and marked by honour. But it will not come without sacrifice. Are you willing to deny yourself the pleasures of careless flirting or ‘befriending’ attractive girls?

ALSO, READ Download Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Messages on PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

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Will you say a decisive no to all the sexual gratification options that the world is ambushing you with and wait, possibly years, just to prove to one woman (who you may or may not have met yet) that you are trustworthy and true? Will you really ‘lay down your life and your own needs to honour hers?

Only if you want an amazing marriage one day where your wife trusts you so much she holds nothing back in the way she gives herself to you in and out of the bedroom. Only if you want your prayers to be heard and answered by God in an unstoppable way!


Dawn VanderWerf is a single mom and lives with her 10-year-old son in Grand Rapids, MI. She is the Founder and Director of Single Parent Missions, a ministry dedicated to raising up single-parent families to transform generations. She is also a speaker and works with churches to envision and equip them for effective single parent ministry. To subscribe to her daily “Hope Notes” for single parents, visit singleparentmissions.com.

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Apostle Joshua Selman 16 September 2021 | Thursday Morning Message

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Those who argue with the word of God are those who fail in life. When you allow God’s will to be done in your life the same way it is in the heavens then the word will be settled in your life. When the word of God is settled in your life then your life will change like day and night.

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There are very important things you need to check for before marriage. Firstly, You have no business with any man who is not God-fearing. The primary reason why society is in decadence is that the men are not God-fearing. Now, let me clarify this to you – to fear God simply means you have come to a point where dr… You really need to listen to this powerful teaching!

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Before You Find Love, Find Money – Rev Graceman Debo

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Before You Find Love, Find Money – Rev Graceman Debo

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It is important to note that before a man should have a plan on settling down in marriage he must have something doing. No romance will work without finance. You dont need all the money in the world to make a happy home but you need something doing to run the home.

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